My loud inner critic

My favorite thing about my healed relationship with myself & having a loving voice inside of me rather than a self-critical voice is that it’s brought me to a place where feeling balanced & aligned is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing to me.

My life is no longer about how to get the next thing or person so that I can feel loved.
My life is no longer about changing myself because I need to be “fixed.”
My life is no longer about giving more than I am getting.

It’s about remembering how to trust myself, my inner voice, & acting to my highest good.

I sincerely believe my purpose now is less about the labels (the coach, the pretty one, the skinny one, the mother, the wife, the sister, etc.), but more about actually living the life of my dreams.

If you’re growth-minded & have read this far, you might think that you need to shift your mindset, use the law of attraction, or say 1,000 affirmations a day to get there.

While these are helpful, they can only get you so far.
I used these tools & still do, but these tools don’t work, they aren’t transformational, if you haven’t healed the part of you that needs healing.

Learning how to trust yourself is a process of remembering who you are. If it’s hard to do that, it’s because those wounded parts have a louder voice (inner critic) than do your healed parts.

That’s where you find yourself.
That’s where you find love in romance, friendships, & self.
That’s where you remember self-trust.

Would you rather listen to your inner critic or your inner love?

Healing is waiting.

In big love,
💗Lilli