You don't have a "bad picker."

When you’re not sexually attracted to emotionally healthy men it’s not because there’s something “wrong” with you.

There is a root cause of why it’s happening - the purpose of “fatal attraction” actually makes a lot of sense.

It’s frustrating when you know what’s good for you, but there seems to be a block to receiving it.
Or, when what’s good seems boring.
Or, when constant action, anxiety, & never being able to settle is normal - even though that’s what you may really want.

Could it be that perhaps you’ve never had “good” before & “bad” is just familiar?

Shame, blame, & guilt starts to creep in when we start to think that it’s our fault, that we can’t have anything better, and that somehow our picker is broken.

If procrastination (esp. what’s good for you) shows up for you too, it all comes down to emotional trauma that hasn’t been processed yet.

Discovering the root cause & healing our emotional trauma will start to teach us what our new “norm” is.

It will bring us back to consistent balance within ourselves & will teach us that consistent, emotionally available partners are exactly the medicine we need.

That feeling of joy & love spreads like sunshine all over your body.
Your heartbeat feels whole & full instead of empty & barren.

Healing helps you understand & receive the limitless love that you are destined for.

It’s so gorge - and it’s for you.

I see you.

In big love,
💗Lilli