Disney giving relationship advice is about as useful as a magic carpet in real life.

A healthy relationship is life-changing.

A healthy relationship shows us that we are lovable.

It shows us that we can be US, just as we are.

I think that’s one reason why we crave it so much, we know that there has to be something better - more in line with who we are.

Instead of “you complete me” it’s “you empower me.”

Disney had us thinking that in order to feel loved, we needed someone to love us.

Disney was wrong.

Today, we know that we need to get unstuck & feel loved within ourselves first.

One better is that neuroscience & new research about trauma tells us that wanting a healthy relationship & manifesting it is a healing process.

Healing from childhood wounds & past relational wounds to be specific.

When we do that, we feel more in love with ourselves & then a healthy relationship follows.

Consider:

Was a healthy relationship modeled to you?

Do you feel whole or complete as you are?

What support do you need to heal?

In big love,

💗Lilli