Honoring Your Desires

You don’t know until you know.
You don’t know until you want better.
You don’t know until you are ready for truth.

Your journey is uniquely yours.

The fact that you didn’t know THEN how you are continuing to be hurt in relationships matters LESS THAN what you are going to do with that information NOW.

The desire for more of what we really want can drive us forward or it can hold us back.

You didn’t know then, but you know now.
Even though it feels like it sometimes, life is not black & white.

You are not destined to always be fearful & hurt in romantic, friendship, & family relationships.

Your life is not wrong.

You may know this by, but everyone around you isn’t on board.
What to do?

You are gorgeous & beautiful.
Kind & serene.

Your soul deserves to be held & whole.
Your heart deserves to connect with love.

This is what happens when your wounded self heals.
The part that’s judging you for not knowing sooner just needs a little love, you couldn’t have known.

That part needs to heal so that it doesn't keep you stuck anymore.

So that it can move forward in purity & love.
Then, you attract people that see you & love you for who you are (or, you can still feel whole & have healthy boundaries that help, not hurt).

All it takes is for your desire to take one step towards what your heart wants.

Reaching out for help is not weak; it’s life-giving.
Healing this wound can’t happen alone.
Trying to do this solo, is like trying to sail a massive sailboat without the wind.

The love you want can blossom so that you radiate love.
Your relationships can fulfill your life’s purpose.

In big love,
💗Lilli