Personal Integrity

Healthy relationships are really drawn to us when we are in our integrity.

It’s easier than it should be for our inner wounds to get in the way & propel us towards unhealthy people.

Whether it’s not trusting your gut, feeling really anxious in relationships, or finding it super hard to set boundaries & freakin’ stick with them, being out of balance & out of alignment in this way is really painful.

For me, it was really painful because there was a small (before my healing) part of me that just knew that this wasn’t the way it was supposed to be.

There was something deep down that told me that I was made for something more.

Being in integrity with ourselves is like having an owner’s manual & guideline manifesto that ONLY applies to us.

It tells us what our values are.
It guides us to choose who to invite into our lives & who to let go.
It tells us how to spend our time.
It guides us in how to spend our money.
It tells us where our energy is most savored.
It guides us to our purpose & how we pay it forward & the legacy we leave.

If you’re reading this & you feel blocked & overwhelmed because it seems like I lot of work, I want to tell you with loving compassion that it’s really not as scary as it seems.

It does take courage. Courage is the elixir to healing.

It really only takes one thing that you’ve probably denied yourself….DESIRE.

Desire to want better FOR YOU is the best act of self-love you could ever give yourself.

It starts by stepping into the container of safe support.
Trying to do this alone is wayyyy too much for you because you can’t see your blind spots.

Someone who has been there & has done what you want to do can see them & support you deeply along the way.

One step towards your desire.

Today, forward or backward?
Which step do you want to take today?

In big love,
💗Lilli