Romantic Partnerships a Waste of Time?

Have you found romantic partnerships a waste of time?
Dysregulating?
Confusing?
Scary?
Pointless?

If so, I get you.

If you haven’t stepped into healing yet, this makes complete sense.

Especially if our romantic dynamics are similar to that of our caregivers.
Especially if our abandonment wounds lead us to latch on tightly.
Especially if our anxiousness really wants to know that we matter to someone.
Especially if vulnerability hasn’t been safe before.

It makes sense because that ache that you feel in your heart, your chest, or your stomach is telling you there’s something wrong - that it doesn’t feel right, but it’s really hard to “control” your anxiety.

Because you may know that, in your head, your emotions & behaviors - like anger, bitchiness, or stress - aren’t of your highest good but you still can’t seem to shake them.

Your autoimmune reactions know what’s up to - they seem to activate when you’re activated.

The parts that haven’t healed yet run our lives until we step into healing them - relationships will either remain difficult OR you will get with someone who has similar unhealed wounds (eek!).

The best news is - you can make a choice to heal.

Through healing your emotional wounds, you heal your whole self - the parts in the NOW & the parts in the past - so they don’t hold you back from limitless love anymore.

When you heal, you open up space for MORE GOODNESS.
When you heal, your emotions don’t drive your autoimmune reactions as much as they did before.
When you heal, you connect.
When you heal, you manifest MORE LOVE.
When you heal, you open up the lid to your divine presence.

This….
Is…
For…
You…

In big love,
💗Lilli