Unable to focus

That scatter-brained feeling of trying to do everything.
To BE everything to everyone.

That inability to focus.

Anxiety is a lot like that.
It feels like our brains are shorting out.
It feels like our vision blurs.
It feels like an unwinding of “self.”

Emotionally, we really want to focus, we really do, but when it comes to relationships, we get easily distracted.

We may be the mediator - trying to solve other people’s problems.
We may be the chill girl - losing our identity.
We may be the needy one - too anxious inside for any love to enter.

It feels off-putting but our drive to find love, to find connection, & to find purpose is strong.
But, we feel like we’re chasing…..like we’re on the hunt.

That disconnects us from our “self,” because that’s not our true essence.
Our true essence is receiving love, not hunting for it.

We feel lost & alone because we don’t understand & nobody understands us.

What if releasing the guilt you are feeling had a solution?
What if you were able to focus more on what lights you up rather than what drags you down?

Healing your emotional trauma is that solution.

Our emotional trauma will keep us in unfulfilling patterns until we heal them.
It’s not our fault; our emotional trauma is just stuck inside of us & is the main driver of our beliefs & behaviors.

What if you could make decisions & not your emotional trauma?

That’s the sauce.
That’s when the love in relationships.
And the connection with yourself happens.

The feeling of peace & freedom washes over you like a warm bath & you are able to focus on the “good” & let what doesn’t serve you float by.

Healing feels like a miracle when you’re in it, but it’s for everyone.

It’s our divine purpose.

You are worth it.
Promise.

In big love,
💗Lilli