What we attract

It’s never too late.

The path of healing our limiting patterns, achieving what we want, & feeling how we want to feel requires us to step into something new.
Something uncharted.
Something different.

It does feel unbelievably scary.
We feel it in our stomachs, in our breath, in our palms.
The anxiety is real.

Hasn’t change always been scary ya’ll?

Healing our limiting patterns requires us to take a different look at things, requires us to open up to safe others, & it requires us to love parts of ourselves that have been wounded in the past.

The irony with healing is that our fear to heal, our fear to open up, or our fear to trust is actually making that fear worse.
It’s like a big fear snowball rolling down the hill.

The irony is that by not healing, we abandon our deepest selves.
We actually do to ourselves what others did to us.

Yesterday, I was having a moment, I was triggered.
Instead of abandoning myself, I gave that part that was triggered (a younger part of me) what it needed.
It really needed to feel loved and so I did.

It’s not just that though, it’s the process of healing my limiting patterns that has made me whole again.
It is having a support team surrounding me that helps me reinforce this mantra: I know I am good at receiving everything good that comes to me.

That’s a major shift from: I’m bad at relationships.
I can’t feel my feelings.
Or, That’s for that person, but it isn’t for me.

How? In safe support. It HAS to be in safe support because that’s where we learn to be us again.

Our lives are still up and down after healing, but it’s not alone.

We prosper.
We thrive.
We expand.
We grow.
We love.

We only accept relationships that are good for us because we know that anything other than that is spiritual death.

You are unique & you are beautiful.
Isn’t it about time for you to see it too?

In big love,
💗Lilli